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2014 The Year in Review

I am not quite sure if I can sum up a year in one post. At first I was thinking to go through each month of the year and share each of the significant moments that were important to me and my family. Then that would make the post quite long and maybe not so easy to read. As with everything in my life and motherhood, I want it to be easy but natural…so after talking with my sister who has been visiting since before Christmas she suggested I write about each quarter.

This seemed manageable.

Actually, I spent a couple of days away with my sisters and my niece this past weekend and it got me to thinking about so many things. Being with everyone is both inspiring and yet challenging at the same time. When you love someone so fiercely, it’s easy to slip into this idea that they should listen to your ideas (of course for their own good), but loving that fiercely also means that you have to be very careful of their feelings and the healing process…but I jump ahead in the year summation so let me revisit the first quarter of 2014 before I jump to the present.

2014 began with Nino’s family visiting from NY. My world really does revolve around family and it always has. I shared this many years ago when Nino and I were dating. I had said way back then, if I can’t share it with my family…then it’s like it hasn’t happened at all. In February, I attended a debut that caused me to pause. This is the first debut I was invited to while living in Manila, and it was significant in more ways than one. Camille has Down Syndrome, and I am lucky to call her mother Lolet, a good friend. Camille’s celebration and coming out was bittersweet for me, and made me realize what a warrior my friend was. I am lucky to have a friend like her in the Special Needs Community. 

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Camille’s Debut was a wonderful celebration of a young lady who loves to sing and connects through music. Thank you Camille for inviting us to celebrate with you!

As many of you know, February is also Down Syndrome Consciousness Month here in the Philippines so, we of course attended The Happy Walk which brings awareness to our cause.

Team Gellibean continues to grow in love and support each year for the Happy Walk.

Team Gellibean continues to grow in love and support each year for the Happy Walk.

 In March, Gia and I participated in our first fashion show together as a team. This was a wonderful experience for both of us in celebration of International Women’s Day.

Gia and I had a great time modeling for Guess! We were so happy that Jeanette and Issa asked us to be part of the first Mother/Daughter fashion show in ATC! (Photo Credit: Chic Driven FB page)

Gia and I had a great time modeling for Guess! We were so happy that Jeanette and Issa asked us to be part of the first Mother/Daughter fashion show in ATC! (Photo Credit: Chic Driven FB page)

In the second quarter of the year, I met some challenges. In this online community, I have tried my best to cultivate healthy and positive relationships with other parents, women, and people who love others with special needs. I am aware of the energy and the information that I put out there that can have an affect on others. Early in the second quarter I became frustrated with an ex-government official who consistently offends people across the board. I realize that I can choose who I pay attention to in this life…I realize that I do not have to subscribe or even follow someone on twitter if he does not care for the common good…I realize that sometimes, it’s easier to click the UNFOLLOW button. 

You may not love someone who has an intellectual disability, but that doesn't mean that you can't be sensitive to the fact that words HURT.

You may not love someone who has an intellectual disability, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t be sensitive to the fact that words HURT. #EndTheRWord

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Jen Tan, of Attached at the Hip, and I attending the #SeaChiYogaRetreat.

But because y’all know me, I would like to remember the positive events that took place in this quarter, like:  donating my hair to children with cancer, going on a yoga retreat with Jen Tan that was not only invigorating but allowed me to recharge, supporting DSAPI by enjoying great food and learning more about my natural gifts. 

The staff of Mango Tree was extremely supportive and patient with all of the girls as they learned their jobs for the day.

The staff of Mango Tree was extremely supportive and patient with all of the girls as they learned their jobs for the day.

This quarter also marked the beginning of Gellibean’s modeling career. Green Blooded Tees chose Gelli and Diego as  two of their models for the launch of their kids line. I was just over the moon that she was chosen…and she was a NATURAL in front of the camera! (Go figure!)

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June was the month that marked the beginning of Gelli’s educational career. This may not seem like it’s a big deal because well…nursery school is nursery school…but it is huge for us, and has turned out great for Gellibean. The Little Apprentice is not a special school, in fact, Gelli is the only child with special needs in her classroom and it is working out perfectly. Gellibean is happy, Mommy is happy, and Teacher Boom said that Gelli is progressing and doing just fine at this level. Remember that at this level, the kids all need to learn how to socialize with one another, how to run, and jump, and hold a crayon or a pencil, and how to identify colors, shapes, and letters. 

When her classmates arrived, they started the routine of the day. First activity: Circle Time!

Gelli is having a grand time at The Little Apprentice. I love watching her grow through Teacher Boom’s guidance.

I was also asked to represent Pharmaton as one of their Life Chargers. This was a huge honor for me to represent the brand, share myself, and share my advocacies. Both Best Buddies and DSAPI are important in enriching my daughter’s life and making it easier for her, here in Manila. Pharmaton makes my life easier and keeps me healthy, while sharing my advocacies for Gelli makes the the world a better place for her and for other kids like her as well. 

Photo Credit: http://www.kumagcow.com/2014/08/inspirations-meet-pharmaton-life.html

By incorporating Pharmaton into my morning routine, I am able to keep up the busy schedule that is required of me while raising four kids. At the launch with other LIFE CHARGERS, Maxie Abad, Anthony Suntay, Chef Rob Pengson, and Hindy Weber Tantoco. Photo Credit: http://www.kumagcow.com

I also had the opportunity to share the “Gift of Yoga” with Best Buddies. My kids and I facilitated a class where almost 15 sets of Buddy pairs played, laughed, learned, and connected the YogaKids way.

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Facilitating a class for Best Buddies kids and adults is made easier through our generous sponsors like Yoga + in Makati and Juju Eats. Thank you to everyone who made this event possible.

The third quarter also marked the entrance of Best Buddies into De La Salle Zobel. Together, with Brother Bernie, the Safe School program, and the entire student body we took the pledge to #EndTheRWord and our chapter was established with 28 sign ups from The Peer Counselors Club. (And to think…I would have been happy with 5 students!!!) 

Anj, Lolet, Karrots and myself with the Guidance Team who put the SAFE program together.

Anj, Lolet, Karrots and myself with the Guidance Team who put the SAFE program together.

This last quarter of the year has been every bit as busy and filled with learning experiences as the earlier parts of 2014. I drove from Batangas to Fort and won the Shell Fuel Save Driving Challenge as an early birthday gift with my driving partner Sarah Tirona of Fashion Eggplant.

Taking home First Place was a huge accomplishment for this team! Go Renegade Moms!

Taking home First Place was a huge accomplishment for this team! Go Renegade Moms!

I was able to share a bit of my talents with the SoMoms during our Halloween party at Hotel Kimberly in Tagaytay. This was a great bonding experience for me and Gia to do together and it wouldn’t have been possible without the help from some very special people. Thank you Tina, Cai, Maricel, Vangie, and Rowena!

Here is what we came up with using the above peg for our inspiration.

Putting this dessert  table together was so much fun, but I couldn’t have done it without the help of my friends.

My family has also experienced some heart aches and challenging situations this year. I know I cannot carry their problems for them, rather I can be there be there to support and of course lend an ear if needed. One thing I learned because of this unfortunate situation is that it doesn’t matter how much you love someone…sometimes they just have their own path and their own process that they need to go through.

As much as I wish I could help, sometimes we have to let those we love most

As much as I wish I could help, sometimes we have to let those we love most make their mistakes on their own. Instead, I can offer support from the sidelines.

I have also been given the opportunity to work with a brand that I have always wanted to outfit my dream kitchen with. Viking Range Philippines has asked me to represent them as their brand ambassador. This really was a no brainer for me…Viking is American made. The Viking Range is of the highest quality and owning a Viking Range can only up the level at which I cook and create meals for my family. In fact, all of the Viking appliances fit my lifestyle because they offer a level of safety and ease necessary in managing my home with four kids. I’m so excited for the year ahead with this benchmark brand for kitchen appliances!

I'm so excited to share Viking with all of you.

I am so excited for 2015. I know that there will be a great many experiences from which I will learn and hopefully share with all of you. Here’s to celebrating the year that was, and all the beauty that they new year has to offer! 

 

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Comments

  1. Hermelina D. Ressa says

    December 31, 2014 at 10:40 pm

    What a great article! You made me cry and even feel so much far away! You are such a great, loving person not only to your family but to your friends as well! I pray that 2015 will bring you greater happiness and fulfillment in every endeavor you tackle. Because of your dedication and love, Gelli keeps on developing into a beautiful and accomplished little, sweet, loving girl. More power to you, Nino, Gia, Miguel and Diego! Love you all!

    • michelle says

      January 1, 2015 at 8:27 am

      Thanks Mom. We miss you so much. We pray that 2015 brings you back to the Philippines where we can be together again!

  2. Peter A. Ressa says

    January 1, 2015 at 2:04 am

    I loved it Michelle! May God Bless you and Nino and all the kids!

    • michelle says

      January 1, 2015 at 8:28 am

      Love you Dad. We miss you more and more. Looking forward to a time when we are all together.

  3. First Wives Club (@nappyKAYE) says

    January 20, 2015 at 12:51 pm

    Just read through the posts I missed. Happy New Year, Mish! xx

    • michelle says

      January 22, 2015 at 9:27 am

      Happy New Year Kaye 🙂 Looking forward to seeing you again soon!! xoxo

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It was a breezy day. Overcast. A little chilly to be in a suit, but it was perfect to catch up with my girl Candy. Sometimes, if you have chosen your friends well, you can pick up where you left off, as if no time has passed at all. 

Just like I did, sitting in that beach chair, feeling the mist of the Atlantic Ocean, and watching the seagulls pick and the seaweed.

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Wishing I was sitting on this beach with you right now!!!
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Hard to choose which was our favorite from the feast that was set before us!

Brunch is inclusive of some delicious drinks, some Southern smoked and BBQ Fare, and a most colorful sweet dessert buffet by way of Milkshake Bar!
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The short time I had with this guy in Florida was definitely something I will look back on. Wish we had more time to explore and do some fun things on our own.

Gah. How is this kid 20 years old already?
I remember when he was little and he loved peanut butter, chicken nuggets, Kylie Minogue, and sitting on my lap. He was squishy, in tune with my feelings, and I was always worried that he might have an asthma attack in his sleep so I would nebulize him every few hours. He always looked at new experiences with gratitude and wonder, much how he did while we were in FL together.😍

Praying he continues to strengthen his faith as he grows. 🙏🏻👨🏻🙌🏻

Miss you Miggy!
I’ll be sharing a little bit about my faith toda I’ll be sharing a little bit about my faith today with some university students. 

I have shared my testimony with other mommas, women in our community, and parents through this platform and others. It’s always come naturally and has often ended in tears of gratitude and joy for His faithfulness and unending LOVE. 

Of course, sharing parts of myself with others who may find it helpful is a privilege. But for some reason, I am always just a little bit anxious and apprehensive right before I am about to present parts of my story.

Perhaps today, I’m anxious because the format for how I will share is a bit different, I won’t have the comforts I have gotten used to since working from home. Instead I’ll print some cue cards for myself so I can stay on task and within my given time period. 

I love the opportunity this endeavor has given me, to reflect on His presence in my life. He’s been there all along, even if I didn’t know it. I love the understanding that I can have these intimate conversations with my Creator knowing that He has plans for me. He loves me. He knows all the hairs on my head. And that He knows what I need to fulfill my purpose.

This doesn’t mean I won’t have challenges, or times when I feel broken in my life and faith. In fact, there have been many times where my faith has faltered. All of it just means that He is fortifying me through each and every lesson. He is allowing me to create a greater understanding of who I am, where I am supposed to be, and how He will get me there.

Do you share parts of your faith here?
What does that look like?

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